Do you always find yourself dating or trying to date the same types of people that you know are not right for you? Then you may be purposely setting yourself up for failure and not even know it. It happens all the time. If this happens to you then it is important that you try to analyze why you would want to do this. It is most likely that you are not ready for any kind of serious committment and setting yourself up for failure is the best way of guaranteeing you will not get tied up. It might just also be the act of being with someone right for you scares you. It might also be that you find it more stimulating by being with someone completely wrong for you. People sometimes wonder why they should even get into a relationship if there is nothing to come out of it. But what people dont always realize is that a relationship, any relationship, helps us learn about ourselves and what we want from a partner. It allows us to grow and mature as a person. If you end up finding yourself not ready for a relationship, it is okay. Just remind yourself of that fact when the relationships you get into end. Instead of mourning the ending of what was a beautiful relationship, just remind yourself that you were doomed to start with anyways. |
